Doctor

by satish
(gurgaon, india)

'Freedom' is the key word and yet how does one define freedom. Free from the expectations of others or ones own perception of the expectations of others. I submit that it is the freedom from ones own conceptions of oneself that is the true reward of elderhood.

Of course one assumes that one is in a sufficiently healthy state of body and mind to enjoy these rewards and appreciate them to the fullest.

Just as happy and healthy childhood leads to a good basis for a happy and healthy adulthood, so does a fruitful adulthood form the basis for a happy and satisfying 'elderhood'. Feeling of unfinished or untried tasks, remorse and regrets eat into the experience of a happy elderhood. While there still is a possibility of a second chance during adulthood that possibility becomes remote as we age.